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Statue of St. Patrick in the Church

St. Patrick's R.C. Church

Pre-Cana

Reception halls, dresses, tuxedos, rings, flowers ... all are some of the preparations that go into planning a wedding.  Even more important, however, are preparations that will help couples build a successful marriage.  Giving couples the tools they need to build a better relationship with each other and with God is the job of St. Patrick's Pre-Cana Program.

Two crosses intertwined with two wedding rings

 

St Patrick's of Smithtown

Pre-Cana

(Taken from the 2002

St. Patrick's 50th Anniversary Journal)

 

Pre-Cana

The Pre-Cana Program began at St. Patricks in 1975 when Father Joseph Canning sent Mike and Marge Cortegiano to a Diocesan Pre-Cana Traing Program.  In 1976, the Cortegianos launched the program with the help of St. Patrick's new Pastor, Father John Mott.  The Cortegianos headed the program until 1986, when Gail and Carl Valentino became the coordinators.

In recent years, the Pre-Cana program was revamped under the leadership of four couples - Jim and Donna Nebgen, Dan and Ellen Bartley, Bob and Bev Bieneman, and Helene and Owen Farley.  The biggest change was the incorporation of Foccus (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding, and Study) - a survey in which both members of an engaged couple answer questions on a variety of subjects.  The surveys are then entered into a computer.  The results help give an inventory of the relationship.  The survey covers areas such as communication, finances, friendships and spirituality.  Couples are able to see what areas of their relationship are strong and what areas need work.  The survey is completely confidential.  Only the couples theselves see the results.

Today's Pre-Cana consists of 15 married couples who work with the engaged couples.  The program runs three times per year (fall, winter and spring) for six weeks, with 15 to 20 couples participating each season.  The first of the six-weekly meetings is an introductory night.  The couples meet at the church and hear from one of the parish priests.  During the next four weeks, the couples meet in the home of the facilitating couple.  They have discussions and work their way through a workbook entitled, "Decisioin to Love."  The work book covers topics such as communication, family of origin, personalities and pasts, sexuality, children, sprituality, finances, family, and friends.  Couples spend part of the time working one-on-one, and part in group discussions.  The couples meet for a final time at Mass where they are called forward into the sanctuary, have their rings blessed, receive a cross.  The Mass is followed by a party.

In the end, the couples hopefully have a better understanding of their relationship to God and each other and are better prepared for a lifelong journey together.

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St. Patrick R.C. Church
280 East Main Street
Smithtown, NY 11787

Mass Times

Today's Mass Readings
Weekdays:
6:45am, 9:00am, 12:10pm
Saturday:
9:00am, 5:00pm, 8:00pm
Sunday:
7:30am, 9:00am,
10:30am, 12:00pm
5:00pm
Main Rectory Phone #: 631-265-2271
Jesus with the little children
Updated information on the schedule for times & events for your child's class.  And a complete calendar for the current school year.

Parish Social Ministry

St Patrick's Parish Outreach Logo

Social Ministry

What is Parish Outreach

A helping hand when you can’t cope with an emergency; food, financial assistance, housing, employment in crisis situations when resources are available;  A smiling visitor when you are shut-in for an extended period;  ....(read more)

We are only a phone call away. Please call 265-2668, Monday - Friday, 9 AM to 3

Do You Need Affordable Senior Rental Housing

The Town of Smithtown is accepting applications for affordable senior citizen rental units. If you are or will soon be 62 or older and meet income guidelines, you may be eligible for the affordable housing “bonus” units.  For an application and information please call: 360-7540.  We also have them available in the Outreach office.  IMPORTANT: Application deadline is 5 PM on October 24th.

 
Friday, November 7th
First Friday of the Month
From the 12:10 PM Mass until 3:30 PM.  The Chaplet of Divine Mercy will be recited at 3:00PM.  Please join us as we adore our Lord Jesus.
 
Saturday, November 1st
8:15 AM

Join us in praying the Rosary.
Happy Anniversary
Married in October?
Please join us at the
Sunday, October 5th,
Noon Mass.
All couples are invited to renew their vows and recieve a special blessing. 
Rosary Kit

Rosary Makers

 
Rosary Makers invite you to our
Monthly Meeting
Friday, November 7th
7 PM in Room 209.
Join with others making Rosaries and spreading devotion to Our Blessed Mother.  All ages welcome.  For more information please call 981-3022.
Rosary Crusade Mary
Cordially invites you to our November meeting.
 
Monday, November 3rd at 7:00 PM in Church with recitation of the Living Rosary followed by the Novena Mass.
Sacred Heart of Jesus
Tuesday, November 4th
7:30 PM in the church.
All are invited to attend!

Monthly Meeting

Monday, October 20th
8 PM after the Navena Mass.
The next monthly meeting will be on September 15th at 8 PM.

Pro-Life Family Hosts A

Monthly Holy Hour

Sacred heart of Jesus Sacred Heart of Mary
Adoration - Thanksgiving
Reparation - Petition

Tuesday, October 20th
7:30 to 8:30 PM in the church

Gift From God Baby
Pro-Life Family
Monthly Meeting

Tuesday, October 28th
St. Patrick School
Room 103 at 7:30 PM
St. Patrick's Pro-Life Family invites you to join us for our monthly meeting.  Please come and unite with us as we witness to the sanctity of Life.
Nocturnal Adoration Society

Saturday, October 18th
after the 8 PM Mass.

Join us for a night of prayer in front of the Sacred Sacrament. 

All singles are invigted to refreshments & conversation
Sunday, October 19th
10:00 AM - 1:00 PM
(after the 9 AM Mass)
Cost: $2.00
bottle gifts for babies

Don't Forget
Your Bottle Money

The 4th Weekend of the Month

Please recycle your bottle and cans and donate the money to the worthy cause of helping mothers and their babies in need.  Look for the Pink Baby Bottle banks at the church exits.
Collection Box

The first weekend of the month, we will have the offering for the Hungry and homeless.  Please look for the Hungry & Homeless boxes at the church exits and be generous in sharing God’ blessings.

St. Patrick's Something for Seniors group meets on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month.
Wed., October 8th
Wed., October 22th
at 1:00 PM
All are welcome!
 

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280 East Main Street, Smithtown, NY 11787
(631) 265 - 2271